According to astrology, everyone has the potential to create harmony in themselves and they are able to live in harmony with others, as long as they are truly in peace with themselves. Most of our relationships do not reach perfection, as only a few succeed to achieve such perfect inner harmony. However, it’s completely possible to achieve any kind of relationship with others, if you know their exact time of birth.
The highest value of Synastry (refers to the astrological study of relationships) is in the ability to assess the compliance of the intending spouses. Many astrologers will compare the birth charts of both partners, to find out whether you’re perfect for each other.
Every relationship between a man and a woman can be divided into three components: mental, emotional and sexual. For a harmonious relationship, all three components must be integrated, but sexuality is the most important thing. In order to be attracted to someone sexually, the aspects between Mars and Venus are also important. If these two are working in harmony, you can be sure that your relationship will be filled with happiness, both romantically and sexually.
Another important component to a successful relationship are the aspects between the Sun and the Moon. These two planets are very important in determining the quality of a relationship.
When we talk about the ideal partner, certainly one of the most important factors in the whole story is the cusp of the seventh house of the horoscope or the Descendant. A large number of examples of successful relationships and marriages showed that overlapping of the axis of the Ascendant and the Descendant plays an important role in harmonious relations and attraction.
One of the best places to look to determine your soul mate is the Seventh House. The Seventh house or the house of marriage, as it is traditionally called, is exactly opposite the rising sign, or the Ascendant. The sign on the ascendant (the rising sign) naturally attracts the sign that it opposes, because that will be the sign on the Seventh House. For example, the impulsive Aries rising will have the diplomatic, peace-loving Libra on the Seventh House, and Aries and Libra are directly opposite in the zodiac.
You should also look at any planets in the Seventh House, because soul mates will have strong ties through this house. For example, one partner’s Sun or Moon may be in the other partner’s Seventh House, showing a strong soul mate connection. If there are no planets in the Seventh House, the astrologer will use the ruling planet of the sign, as an indicator of Seventh House ties.
Another important indicator is the North Node of the Moon, which is activated when someone important comes into our life. The North Node of the Moon is associated with finding a soul mate and if you or your partner’s North Node connects with a personal planet in the other chart, this is a very strong indication that you two could be soul mates.
So, as you can see there is much more to finding the ideal partner than simply the zodiac sign. If you think that you can’t find your soul mate through astrology, have your natal charts checked out by a professional astrologer.